Thursday, March 22, 2007

Tough decisions...


To love someone with all your heart, to want to grow old with that person, but to also have to contemplate whether the life you'd have with that person would give you all that you want from life, and to then have to decide which part you just can't live without, him or the other, deciding whether the love of your life will be the sacrifice so that you might get to fulfill another dream...it's unbelievably hard, and my heart aches for her to have to come to either conclusion. I just wish I could tell her the right answer to the question. Perhaps the fact she's had to ask it so often has given her the right answer. I hope so.

2 comments:

heather said...

wow, not sure who you're refering to or what the decision entails but i'll send positive thoughts your way all the same. hope it works out ok.

Celebrate Woo-Woo said...

heather - I'll add your positive thoughts to mine for her. It's one of those decisions that no one else can really help someone make because it comes down to something you think you might want someday (such as children) but can't have with the other person and how important that something is to you.